Sex therapy & LGBTQ+ therapy for individuals and couples who are tired of hoping things will magically get better.
Virtual therapy anywhere in California.
Your libido has ghosted you, your relationship is giving “awkward roommates,” or LGBTQ+ life has you wondering if you'll ever feel at home in your own skin. You’ve spent years untangling who you are, only to still feel lost when it comes to love, sex, and connection.
Imagine feeling like yourself again—confident, connected, present. No more “faking it” in the bedroom or in life. No more spiraling about what’s wrong with you. Just deep, fulfilling, drama-free relationships, an actually enjoyable sex life, and a solid sense of who you are and what you want.
I don’t do surface-level therapy. We talk about everything (yes, everything), and I make sure you’re not just left floating in self-reflection with no answers. I find the resources you need, help you build real skills, and make sure you never feel alone in this process.
I’ve been advocating for the LGBTQ+ community since 2009, working in sex education since 2006, and practicing clinically in both fields since 2017.
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“She connects easily with her clients and creates the foundational trust that is so important to this work. She is involved with and focused on the LGBTQ+ community, with skills to support those in poly and open relationships to learn how to navigate them successfully.”
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“If you are looking for a talented therapist to help you as a couple or individual to navigate the complexities of your sexual and emotional world, you have found her!”
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“One of my favorite things about Julia is her ability to provide another perspective with zero judgement. She really listens to what I'm saying and has done a great job at tackling beliefs I thought I ‘should’ have. Julia's compassionate approach is what had me give her a chance and I'm so happy I did.”
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“She is a beautiful blend of warmth, caring, firmness, and non-judgmental openness. She loves what she does and it shows. I feel safe in her presence and it makes it easy to be vulnerable and authentic with her. I trust that she can do the same for others with ease.”
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Limited spots available as I keep a small case load to ensure quality.
Why wait? The real cost of doing nothing…
→ That “it’s fine” sex life? Yeah, it’s not fine. It’s holding you back from real pleasure.
→ Relationships don’t fix themselves. If you’re struggling now, waiting will only make it worse.
→ Feeling alone, lost, or disconnected doesn’t go away on its own. Therapy is the action step you’ve been avoiding.
A few of the concepts we might explore …
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→ How you talk about sex can make or break your relationship.
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→ You don’t need a perfect body for great sex.
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→ Non-monogamy doesn’t have to feel like a tightrope.
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→ Your past doesn’t have to dictate your pleasure—healing is possible.
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→ Becoming the best sex partner is an easy task.
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→ You already have the answers—sometimes, you just need someone to help you see them.
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→ I can help you get things back up (literally) and running.
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→ Asking your partner what they like in bed is less scary than you think.
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→ You can successfully open your relationship with communication.
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→ Boundaries are sexy and easy to implement with a partner.
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→ Your needs and desires are important; we can make them come to life.
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→ Having painful sex is something you never have to do again.
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→ Your relationship can reach its full potential and be at peace.
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→ Gay sex can be the best sex.
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→ There is no place for performance anxiety in the bedroom.
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→ Judgment can’t follow you here.
Meet the Therapist
Hi, I’m Julia, AKA The Girl With All the Answers.
I’m trained in sex therapy, attachment theory, Gottman Couples Therapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
But more than that? I’m real. I bring the tough love, the no-BS guidance, and the deep knowledge to help you transform your sex life and relationships.
I love blowing my clients' minds while holding all the pieces we just blew up so we can reorganize them and continue with a renewed view of life.
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→ Bachelor's Degree in Theology & Religious Studies with an Emphasis in Eastern Religions (University of San Diego)
→ Masters in Social Work (University of Southern California)
→ Certificate in Sex Education and Sex Therapy (University of Michigan)
→ Licensed Clinical Social Worker (Board of Behavioral Science)
→ Certified Sex Therapist (American Association of Sex Educators, Coaches, and Therapists)
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