LGBTQ+ therapy for individuals and couples who are tired of hoping things will magically get better. 

Virtual therapy anywhere in California.

Your relationship feels more like awkward roommates than partners. LGBTQ+ life sometimes leaves you wondering if you’ll ever truly feel at home in your own skin.

You’ve spent years untangling your identity—facing rejection, confusion, and hope—only to still feel lost when it comes to love, connection, and being seen.

Imagine feeling truly at home in your own skin—safe, seen, and deeply understood.

Imagine a relationship where connection flows naturally, and you feel more like partners than strangers sharing space.

I don’t do surface-level therapy. We talk about everything (yes, everything), and I make sure you’re not just left floating in self-reflection with no answers. I find the resources you need, help you build real skills, and make sure you never feel alone in this process.

I’ve been advocating for the LGBTQ+ community since 2009 and practicing clinically since 2017.

You’ve come to the right place!

  • “She connects easily with her clients and creates the foundational trust that is so important to this work. She is involved with and focused on the LGBTQ+ community, with skills to support those in poly and open relationships to learn how to navigate them successfully.”

    – Privately disclosed

  • “If you are looking for a talented therapist to help you as a couple or individual to navigate the complexities of your relationships and emotional world, you have found her!”

    – Privately disclosed

  • “One of my favorite things about Julia is her ability to provide another perspective with zero judgement. She really listens to what I'm saying and has done a great job at tackling beliefs I thought I ‘should’ have. Julia's compassionate approach is what had me give her a chance and I'm so happy I did.”

    – Privately disclosed

  • “She is a beautiful blend of warmth, caring, firmness, and non-judgmental openness. She loves what she does and it shows. I feel safe in her presence and it makes it easy to be vulnerable and authentic with her. I trust that she can do the same for others with ease.”

    – Privately disclosed

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Limited spots available as I keep a small case load to ensure quality.

Why wait? The real cost of doing nothing…

→Tired of shrinking yourself to be accepted? Constantly editing who you are is exhausting—and unsustainable.

→ Questioning your gender, sexuality, or relationship style? You deserve space to explore without pressure or judgment.

→ Coping with family or partner rejection? Hoping it’ll get better without support often leads to deeper wounds.

A few of the concepts we might explore …

  • → Finding your people and finally feeling at home.

  • → Embracing identity without needing all the answers.

  • → Dating while LGBTQ+ isn’t like the movies—here’s what to expect.

  • → When your support system lets you down—what now?

  • → Gender journeys aren’t linear—and that’s okay.

  • → Growing into your identity without losing yourself.

  • → Healing after conversion therapy—on your terms.

  • → LGBTQ+ relationships deserve real support too.

  • → You can successfully open your relationship with communication.

  • → Building safety in your body after years of hiding.

  • → Your needs and desires are important; we can make them come to life.

  • → What it’s like to feel safe in your queerness (without needing to explain).

  • → Your relationship can reach its full potential and be at peace.

  • → The joy of building chosen family and community.

  • → Celebrating every layer of your unique journey.

  • → Judgment can’t follow you here.

Meet the Therapist

Hi, I’m Julia, AKA The Girl With All the Answers.

As an LGBT-affirming therapist specializing in supporting the LGBTQ+ community, I understand the unique challenges and fears individuals face.

My goal is to provide a safe and supportive environment where genuine connections can occur.

With my extensive experience working with the LGBTQ+ community, I am dedicated to helping you achieve personal growth and fulfillment.

But more than that? I’m real. I bring the tough love, the no-BS guidance, and the deep knowledge to help you transform your sex life and relationships.

I love blowing my clients' minds while holding all the pieces we just blew up so we can reorganize them and continue with a renewed view of life.

  • → Bachelor's Degree in Theology & Religious Studies with an Emphasis in Eastern Religions (University of San Diego)

    → Masters in Social Work (University of Southern California)

    → Licensed Clinical Social Worker (Board of Behavioral Science)

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